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O tempo não age. Você é quem tem que agir. 

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Esse texto não é sobre você. Ele é sobre mim, e sobre os meus sentimentos.

Quando contei a uma amiga sobre a mensagem que enviei ao meu ex, dizendo sentir saudades, ela achou um absurdo. Pra que se humilhar por alguém que te faz tanto mal? Pra que mostrar pra ele que, apesar de tudo que ele fez, você ainda se importa? Por que você não engole esse sentimento, vira uma tequila, dança sua música favorita, e tenta esquecer disso por uma noite? Por que você não começa a sair com outros caras, e deixa o tempo agir? 

O tempo realmente passa.  Nossas feridas se fecham, criam casquinha, e se cicatrizam. Com o tempo podemos olhar para nossas cicatrizes e sorrir, se achando bobo até, por todo o sofrimento. Porque afinal, tudo passa. E passa mesmo. Mas uma coisa que nunca te disseram sobre o tempo: ele passa, ameniza, traz conforto; mas assim como ele não tem uma borracha capaz de apagar o seu passado por completo, ele também não tem um lápis capaz de dar um ponto final para as histórias que você deixou em aberto. O tempo não vai escrever sua história, muito menos trazer um fim para o que ficou na metade.

Eu não gosto de coisa mal resolvida, nossa, só de falar dá um nó na garganta. Parece que a cada coisa mal resolvida da nossa vida, é um nó a mais de corda dentro do peito. E eu não quero perder um espaço dentro de mim que podia ser ocupado com sentimentos bons, guardando dúvidas, questionamentos, e suposições. Eu não quero pensar “e se eu tivesse mandado uma mensagem?”, quero assumir o controle da minha história e realmente mandar uma mensagem. Entende o que eu quero dizer? Isso não se aplica somente a relacionamentos…

E se eu largasse desse emprego que não gosto e fosse fazer algo não convencional, mas algo que eu amo? Se você somente se pergunta isso em frente ao espelho, você não está sendo o protagonista da sua própria história, você é um narrador, um observador, alguém que queria muito viver, mas que por algum motivo, não vive. Se reprime, oprime, tem medo. Medo de que? De receber um não? De errar? De ouvir o que não quer?

Por mais que queiramos que a vida seja um mar de rosas, rosas tem espinhos e apesar de lindas, machucam. Assim é a vida. Linda. Cheia de reviravoltas. Uma hora você está em cima. Outras tão fundo que nem se ouve sua voz. Ora pura magia, ora eterno sofrimento. Que jogue a primeira pedra quem nunca se sentiu a pessoa mais infeliz de todo o mundo. Quem nunca olhou pros céus e se perguntou “Por que comigo?”. E agora me diga, quem nunca achou que tinha perdido toda sua força, e se reergueu mais uma “última” vez? Quem nunca recebeu um não e continuou lutando por acreditar que o sim um dia viria? Quem nunca ouviu o que não queria, e entendeu que o que o outro pensa e faz, não diz respeito a você, e somente a ele?

Você não pode deixar pra depois. Deixar pra que o tempo aja. O tempo é somente isso, o tempo. Ele passa… 1,2,3,4,5 se foram. Passaram. E o que você fez nesse tempo é o que conta.

O tempo não age. Você é quem tem que agir. 

Tem vontade de fazer algo? Faça.

Quer mudar de vida? Mude.

Sentiu saudades? Mande uma mensagem. É só uma mensagem, que mal há em dizer o que se sente?

Você é o que você faz, não o que fazem diante do que foi feito.

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52 Comments

  • Postado abril 1, 2019
    by Ely

    Se encaixa perfeita com o que estou sentindo. Senti falta e fui atrás, não fui correspondida da maneira que eu queria, mas ok, fiz o que tinha de ser feito e vida que segue!!

  • Postado abril 1, 2019
    by Iara

    Que arraso, vc acaba com minha vida! Lindaaaaaa! Me nota

  • Postado abril 1, 2019
    by Angélica da costa Bezerra

    O problema desse texto é que ele acaba.

    • Postado abril 2, 2019
      by Anne

      Simplesmente amei esse texto…Isabela Freitas descreveu tudo que sinto e o que passo dia após dia, realmente o tempo não volta ele passa mais rápido do que desejamos… só queria resolver meu problema de alto confiança…quanto mais eu olho pouco eu tenho… obrigada por essas grandes palavras,adoro seus livros e tudo que você faz 🥰

  • Postado abril 2, 2019
    by Letícia Matheus

    Nunca pare de escrever, você motiva milhares de pessoas e uma delas sou eu. Hoje vejo um mundo melhor, me vejo melhor graças aos seus livros e textos!! Obrigada por existir. ❤️

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  • Postado abril 2, 2019
    by Beatriz Holtrup

    Bebela pelamor quero MAISSSS textos estou com sede e saudade por favor

  • Postado abril 2, 2019
    by Maria Vitória

    CARAMBAAAAA. INCRÍVEL COMO TU ENTRA NA VIDA DOS LEITORES, JÁ QUERO O QUARTO LIVRO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Postado abril 2, 2019
    by MAISA MELO DE ARAUJO

    Bicha, a senhora arrasa sempre e cada vez mais!
    Esse texto é sobre nós!

  • Postado abril 3, 2019
    by Clara

    Não sabia desse site, li seus dois primeiros livros e cá estou eu, maravilhada em como você é talentosa! Obrigada por compartilhar esse talento conosco.

  • Postado abril 5, 2019
    by Heloisa Affonso

    Amei ,esse texto!
    Li , seus três livros. São fantásticos! Você é muito talentosa . Você vai escrever mais livros ???
    O legal, dos seus livros que eles fizeram eu vê a vida de outra forma . Não só em relacionamento, mais em tudo .
    Sou muito sua Fã ,Isabela Freitas.

  • Postado abril 5, 2019
    by edilane cardoso

    A cada texto, livro, post e vídeo que vejo teu, aumenta a admiração que sinto por ti.

  • Postado abril 9, 2019
    by Nayara Zanovelo

    Isaaaa, vc podia fazer um App ne?
    Seria sensacionaaaal! hahahaha
    Vc é maravilhosa, obrigada por compartilhar com a gente!
    Pedrinho, vc é o maximo!
    Bjss

  • Postado abril 13, 2019
    by Milleny santos

    Que texto incrível Isa, amei amei
    Amo seus livros e ler tudo que você escreve, “eu leria até sua lista de compras”… (é sério!)
    Você me inspira muito e a cada texto te admiro mais,você é um máximo fada sensata!
    Bjss

  • Postado abril 14, 2019
    by Mariana Oliveira

    Eu são tão grata pela sua vida e por tudo que você escreve, eu me identifico em tudooo até mesmo na simples sugestão de ler ouvindo música (o que muitos não entendem digamos de passagem) obrigada Isa <3

  • Postado outubro 20, 2019
    by laissantos@gmail.com

    Olá , estou acompanhando este site e estou adorando seus artigos são muito bons mesmo parabéns.
    Hiper Ribrião

  • Postado dezembro 19, 2019
    by Sah_milla

    Eu achei perfeito demais! ❤

  • Postado janeiro 4, 2020
    by Taynara Farias

    Não tenho costume de entrar no site, e hj simplesmente me deu vontade de olhar e fui direto nesse texto. Tô impactada 😭😍😍😍
    Tava precisando ler isso hj.
    Obrigada Isa ♥️♥️

  • Postado março 30, 2020
    by Jhullyene Lais

    Eu estou passando realmente por isso

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    by Aurea

    Perfeito! li e chorei muito, pois diz tudo aquilo que tenho sentido no momento.

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Isabela Freitas, 29 anos, é autora dos best-sellers Não se apega, não, publicado em 2014, Não se iluda, não, de 2015 e Não se enrola, não, de 2016, que juntos venderam 1,5 milhão de exemplares. Sucesso nas redes sociais, a escritora mineira morou em São Paulo, no Rio de Janeiro e em 2019 retornou a Juiz de Fora, onde se dedica à maternidade e à literatura.

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